Anonymous said: I've lost everyone I cared about and I don't know what to do, I feel really alone and I just want someone to talk to but there isn't anyone:(

Ahhh yes, that is a familiar feeling !!! I am sorry you are experiencing that!!! HERES THE THING however, sometimes it is just that, a feeling. Losing one person can feel like you;ve lost everyone. Everyone else feels invisible or insignificant, not in a hurtful way, in a way you cannot help. I can’t say 4 sure, but I am willing to bet there are ppl in your life that care about you and would love 2 talk. Don’t discount them !!! Also remember that loss is a part of life. A sad part, but occasionally a blossoming part, in terms of friendships and such. Loss from death is a terrible thing, but again, it is part of life. You can’t control it and you have to not let it stop you from living yourself. There will always be ppl that feel like family, whether they are your blood related family or not. If you don’t have those ppl now, they will almost definitely enter your life at some point. Everything works in cycles and everything comes & goes. Losing friends can be for the best, oddly. If someone is willing to give up their friendship with you, they were probably not meant to be there at all. I do not talk to a single friend that I had during school, and those friendships were never truly good anyway. It just felt like all I had. If you think it is worth saving a friendship and that it can be fixed, talk to them & they will most likely understand and try again!!! BUT ALSO dont forget you are surrounded by people. Billions of them everywhere!!! It is insane how many people exist. Go to local events, art shows if ur into that, concerts, anything really. Talk to interesting people at school if you go to school. Push yourself to be outgoing and it’ll do alot for you. I know it sounds too simple, but it really is the difference between taking action or holding back. It’s a simple but scary step. I promise you are not going to feel like this for your entire life, but you can also speed up the process. There are also lots of people on the internet that are willing to talk to you I bet !! Just be careful and safe with who you talk to!! And dont spend too much time online either because it’s bad. It is nice to chat with ppl briefly though, at least to have some interaction. You can always type to me on here, although I might not be able to answer consistently, some ppl find it helps to just have someone reading or listening. A journal or creative project can act in the same way!!! Translate your words and thoughts into an expression!! You should find a method to be content without relying on any other humans!! There are also hotlines that can help you and can be easily accessed on google!! You do not need to be silenced! Continuity is important, just keep trying and you are going to find something you care about, and friends, and valuable experiences. Do not allow yourself to get trapped or consumed by a dark emotion!! It is not as bad as you might believe currently. I dont mean that to trivialize your problem, but I mean that your viewpoint determines alot, and if you make the decision that things are bad, it can prevent you from seeing when they change !!! Anyways yes thx so much for asking god bless best wishes 2k14

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